If you’ve received an invitation to a black-tie wedding, you may find yourself wondering: what exactly should I wear? While traditional weddings can feel straightforward to dress for, black tie brings an added layer of formality — and sometimes, confusion.

At Style Boutique, we’re here to take the guesswork out of special occasion dressing. Whether the wedding is set in a grand ballroom or a stately manor, understanding what’s expected from a black tie dress code will help you choose something that feels appropriate and stylish.

The Black Tie Dress Code Explained

Black tie weddings call for formal attire. For women, this usually means:

  • A floor-length or midi-length gown

  • Luxurious fabrics like satin, velvet, or chiffon

  • Refined accessories (think metallics, pearls, or subtle sparkle)

  • Polished footwear (heeled sandals or dressy court shoes)

  • A coordinated layer like a shawl or fitted blazer

Although black tie is more formal than cocktail attire, you don’t necessarily need to wear a full ball gown. Midi dresses in elevated fabrics or designs can work just as well.

What Kind of Dresses Are Suitable?

When choosing your black tie outfit, think structured silhouettes, standout details, and sophisticated tones.

The Hope & Ivy Puff Feather Trim Flutter Sleeve Midi Dress is a perfect black-tie option. With feather trim sleeves and embellished bows, this black dress strikes the right balance between glamour and wearability — ideal for an evening celebration.

Another great choice is the Kyla Plissé Dress in Black. The soft pleated fabric adds texture and movement, while the simplicity of its design makes it a versatile base for standout accessories.

Prefer a pop of colour? The Carla Ruiz Fuchsia Dress brings bold femininity to the occasion. The cold-shoulder detail, faux belt accent, and flattering cut offer both comfort and confidence — everything you want for a formal wedding.

You can browse more suitable options in our wedding guest dresses collection, which features a wide range of styles for formal events, all curated with women aged 35+ in mind.

Accessories for a Black Tie Wedding

Accessories can make or break your outfit. Choose a clutch bag over a shoulder bag, opt for drop earrings or delicate studs, and consider adding a wrap or bolero for modesty during a ceremony.

Stick to metallics, monochrome, or complementary jewel tones for accessories — these will pair beautifully with both black and colourful dresses.

Final Tips for Black Tie Dress Success

  • Check the venue: A black tie event at a country house may feel slightly more relaxed than one in a hotel ballroom.

  • Coordinate with the season: Rich colours like navy, plum, or emerald work well for autumn and winter weddings, while pastels and lighter fabrics suit spring and summer.

  • Think ahead: Choose shoes that you can comfortably stand and dance in, especially if the ceremony and reception are in separate locations.

No matter your taste, we believe dressing for a formal wedding should still feel like you. At Style Boutique, we stock a wide selection of wedding guest dresses that suit every season, venue, and style preference.

Carly Warke